We have three women who rotate as, for lack of a better word, conceirges for our building. In reality they sit behind a desk in the entryway. And take lots of breaks. Most times after we pass the desk, Lexi asks, "What she is doing down there?" and I tell her, "She's working." "She's watching television," is the sage reply. And, yes. Between breaks they mostly sit and watch television.
Two of them will take your trash out to the courtyard, so that's FANTASTIC!
C1 is very stiff and proper. She calls Lexi "Alexandra" and speaks to her in Russian. Long-winded Russian. Lexi just glazes over.
C2 is a warm, friendly babushka. She is the one who SO wants to be affectionate to Lexi. She will try to give her little treats and wanted to do a little fingerplay with her. She likes Lexi.
C3 speaks a little English, and so, until recently, was Lexi's favorite.
Every time she comes in, Lexi dashes up the steps so that she's standing at eye-level with whomever is on duty. To start a conversation, she usually shows them something--her lunchbox, a bottle of water, her dress.
C3 told me when Lexi showed her a bottle of water...
In English, the word "spoiled", it is negative?"
I confirmed it was.
In Russian, too. I think Lexi is spoiled.Spoiled? (I was flabbergasted.) Really? I don't think so.
Yes. A little. A little spoiled.Well, when you have nothing, then you need many new things.
She conceded that point, but remained unconvinced.
THEN, when we had our week of summer a while back, Lexi came in wearing a sleeveless top (H@nna Andersson-- quite modest and much thicker than her t-shirts). It was hot and we'd walked home. C3 was not happy. The conversation quickly went from English to Russian:
Where is her jacket? Where is her coat? What is this? (dismissive gesture at sleeves)
It's hot today. We walked from school. It is good.
No, it is not good. She must have a jacket.No, she is fine. Are you cold, Lexi? (No, I am not.) Of course. Mama knows. Mama knows what Lexi needs.
No, she does not! Mama does not know! And so I just repeated that Mama knew and walked away up the stairs.
This is the kind of thing that drives me nuts!